Why?
So, why is it when you are crabby and you know you are crabby and you know it is in an unreasonable crabbiness and you decide to take yourself away from everyone by staying in your office all day leaving everyone alone and being alone with your crabbiness----that the people you are protecting from yourself still manage to get angry and upset because you are crabby. BUT, you haven't taken the crabbiness out on anyone---you've hidden away in a room all by yourself---just so you wouldn't inflict your sour mood on others.
You, even say things like: "no thank you." and "please" but it doesn't really matter...because you are ticked about nothing---so they are ticked because you are ticked.
gah!!!
I hate me right now.
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:-( I feel your pain. When we go off in another room people wanna know why, did THEY do or say something, etc etc. They feel compelled to "fix" things. When you just want them to gooooo awaaaaaay!
That, and if Dr. John Gray's theories are indicative of traditional gender roles, a woman wants to be drawn out of her well, while a man will come out of his cave when he's ready.
Sorry. That didn't come out very soothing or supportive at all. Make plans, say, to listen to your favorite relaxing music on your iPod and ask that you not be bothered until the earbuds pop out?